Jordan, Palestine & Israel Part 4: Staying with Bedouins in the Wadi Rum desert

Wadi Rum, Jordan

We found Obeid on Booking.com, after having read great reviews of his Bedouin camp online. Obeid offered to pick us up from Petra in the morning, which was perfect, and we drove 1.5 hour south to reach the Wadi Rum desert and his camp. We went for a drive to have a look around the desert the same day – the dunes were very beautiful and the sand was red and soft. We ended the trip with watching the sunset and having tea in the desert, and then Obeid pointed to the horizon “see the lights over there? That’s our camp” .. “Do you mind driving the car back while I have my evening run?” I was so excited I hopped right in, and driving the 4×4 in the dunes was great fun!

My mom and I were alone in the camp apart from the family, and in the evening Obeid and his two very friendly sons had prepared dinner. We sat by the fire and spoke about things, and they played some music and sang, which was nice. As I mentioned before, there was 3g everywhere in Jordan – even there deep out in the desert, the guys kept uploading photos to Facebook and showing us different pictures and videos. It was quite funny and a bit of a contrast to what we had imagined in terms of what “Staying with Bedouins in the desert” would be like, but “that’s what Bedouin 2.0 is!”, the men explained laughing. Of course.

The next morning was insanely cold and I got a big jacket from one of the boys, “you look like Daesh!” he said laughing. They laughed a lot about IS in the camp, which kind of gave an insight into how they felt about it, it wasn’t going to reach the south and it was mostly crazy people with an impossible mission. I was thinking how some of the satire and comedy on IS maybe had reached them. The two brothers told stories about their family who lives in the town nearby, about how their sisters study and how one of them is getting married soon to a teacher “Do you have any photos of your sister?” we asked. “No, of course not! What if one of my friends takes my phone and starts flipping through the photos?” was an answer delivered with such “but, duuh, don’t you get it?!” that both my mom and I decided to not take the conversation further. There were still significant contrasts in the way Bedouin 2.0 looks at life.

We headed off to see the sunrise from the backs of our camels, it was cold, cloudy and windy, so after a while we decided that we preferred to head back. Just a couple of minutes later, the rain started pouring down – and Nayel, one of the brothers, came rushing with his 4×4 and picked us up. We came back to the camp where one of the tents had been prepared with breakfast and the fireplace was nice and warm.

After breakfast, we packed our things back into the backpacks and Obeid dropped us off in Aqaba, just by the border to Israel.

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

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Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Wadi Rum, Jordan

Jordan, Palestine & Israel Part 3: Sunset in Petra and an unexpected Bedouin cave visit.

Petra, Jordan

We arrived in Petra around noon with the bus, and took a taxi to our hotel, the Petra Guesthouse, located conveniently just by the entrance to Petra. After relaxing for a while we decided to go and have a quick look at one of the world’s most beautiful cities, also known as the red-rose city – it was already getting late and the site was closing. To enter Petra, you walk through a beautiful passage in the mountain, between the pinkish coloured rocks, a magical walk with cool air and your steps and voices echoing off the walls. We arrived at the Treasury, which is the first carved structure in Petra – and it was really something else. By the Treasury, we met Feras and his cousin Abdullah, who asked whether we wanted to ride on mules to the Monastery at the top, suggesting to give us a tour of the entire site. We hesitated, as we were only supposed to have a quick look at this point, but then we figured that it could be nice to do it already now instead of next morning – and the light was really beautiful as the sun was soon setting. For photos, and for avoiding the crowds, it was a perfect set up. Feras also happened to have a very calm and approachable personality, he wasn’t insisting or pushing, just suggesting – and that felt reassuring and safe. We agreed that we would go with them to the top of the mountain and Feras also invited us to see the cave where he lives. So off we went on our two beautiful white mules, passing people on the way, all of them walking in the other direction to exit the site.

We had to learn how to trust the animals beneath us, as they were climbing stairs, walking very closely to steep falls and stepping around slippery stones. As much as we wanted to guide them in the direction that looked like the safest to take, they knew the best way. We arrived at the Monastery and it was all empty, there was not a single person present apart from the man serving coffee with cardamom in the little restaurant by the site. It was quiet, there was a soft breeze, the monastery looked mysterious and the coffee was delicious. I was trying to imagine that this construction was built as much as 312 years BC, and how incredibly old and beautiful it is, carved in red stone. Imagine it wasn’t even known to the western world until more than 2000 years later, in 1812. And here we were.

We continued up to the top of the mountain where Feras and Abdullah showed us the view, it was scary to stand so close to the edge and I felt worried that the animal would suddenly decide to jump off the cliff, it was very steep and a very deep canyon. Once I relaxed and decided that I would probably survive, it was a beautiful view to take in, and Feras and Abdullah were throwing stones into the distance, competing on how far they fly, listening after the distant sound of rock against rock. The sun was setting as we were standing there, and it started getting darker, we decided to climb down and start returning, but first we were going to pass by the cave where Feras lives.

By the time we had come off the mountains and started heading towards the cave, it had gotten really dark. My mom was getting worried, “are we going far?” “are you going to take us back all the way to the entrance?” she asked. “Don’t worry, Feras reassured, it’s just 10 minutes more” that was enough time for it to become completely dark, I could barely see the road ahead of me. “Does the horse even know where it’s going?” “Yes, trust it – it knows the way and it sees better than us” Feras said. So we headed to the cave, and it was indeed not that far away. Feras explained that his family is one of the few that still live in Petra, as many Bedouins moved out when the king had built a town for them with schools, hospitals and other comforts. “We love the king, but some of us wanted to return. My father is one of the guardians of Petra, and we live off the tourism here – it’s good. I’ve learnt all my English from the tourists. My sisters live and study in the village.” We entered the cave, which really was a door in the wall, and a big room behind it with carpets, sleeping bags and pictures on the walls. We sat there for a while talking until we felt really hungry and decided that we wanted to head back. So we stepped outside, and it had gotten even darker than it had been before. Now we really couldn’t see anything at all, I couldn’t see my own feet. “Are you completely sure the mule sees in the dark?” I asked again. “Don’t worry, just let them take us back” Feras said. So we hopped on the mules and headed back down the mountain, passing places where I know I had seen steep falls before. I could feel the animal moving underneath me and it felt calm and reassuring, so I decided to relax, let go, and just look up at the sky instead. It was completely filled with stars. The air was warm and still, that sweet smell from when we had just landed in Amman was back again, and the silhouettes from the mountains in the distance were lit up by the cities behind them. It was completely quiet apart from the sound of hoofs against rock, none of us spoke. Mind cleared, bliss. My entire body smiled.

We arrived back to the treasury where we had first met Feras and Abdullah, and looked up at the details of the construction that were barely visible, I imagined arriving here at night and discovering this for the first time, what an amazing moment that would have been! We continued out through the mountain passage, and Feras and Abdullah now made the mules go faster, they knew this way by heart – so we raced out through the narrow passage, fast, with the wind in our hair, and the clapping sound of hoofs bouncing loudly off the rocks, the stone wall sometimes swooshing closely by us, it was a bit scary but I had already decided to trust the animal, so I embraced the moment as yet another beautiful one.

When we arrived at the exit there was nobody left, not even a guard to let us out, so we thanked Feras and Abdullah and let ourselves out. Happy to have had our own custom made and spontaneous experience in Petra, not at all what we had expected.

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

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Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

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Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

Petra, Jordan

To contact Feras you can get in touch with him via email on feras.petra@yahoo.com, or by phone/whatsapp at +962 772098134, we highly recommend him especially for his calm, honest, courteous and kind personality. Thanks again for everything, Feras, and thank you for showing us your home!

Jordan, Palestine & Israel Part 2: First 24 hours of travelling – a glimpse of Amman and onward bussing.

Jordan 2015: Amman

We arrived in Amman at 8 in the evening, and the first thing we did was to get a Jordanian sim card with 4g network (including free local calls & sms, and 3GB of data) from the Zain kiosque – it was about 20€ and worked well throughout the trip – even in the desert! A driver picked us up and took us to the home of friends where we spent our first night. The air in Amman was pleasantly warm and had a sweet and embracing scent, it smelled like a mix between apple flavoured water pipe smoke and warm desert sand.

We woke up early the next morning, had a joint breakfast with our hosts and took a cab to Amman’s southern bus station in the Wahedat area, from where we hopped on one of the local buses to go to Petra. (There is also a tourist bus service called JETT bus which departs to Petra every morning at 6.30am and returns at 5pm) The local buses from Wahedat depart every hour (or rather, once they are full) and the price is 7€ per seat, we got there at 8am and waited about 45 minutes to depart – and we paid for three seats – one each, and one for our bags. :)

The 3,5h trip through the desert isn’t very exciting in itself, but it’s always pleasant to look out the window and relax while the wind tosses your hair around. A nice and easy start to our trip.

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman & resa

Jordan 2015: Amman

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Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan 2015: Amman

Jordan, Palestine & Israel 2015 Part 1: The itinerary

With 10 days blocked out exclusively for my mother during my contract break in March, Mami took her persuasion skills out and convinced me that it was time for yet another trip with our backpacks. We looked at maps and weather reports together, thought of options that were not too far away yet not too close.. and when Daesh started smashing art to pieces in Iraq we agreed that Petra in Jordan was a place that we should make sure we experience as soon as possible.

We booked our flights to and from Amman without booking hotels, and I decided that if we’re going to spend days looking at monuments and beautiful desert, I want my mom to understand some of the local context and history, and experience some of the places I visited in 2010. So we added Palestine and Israel to the itinerary, and the circle was closed. March 9th to 19th 2014 – Jordan, Palestine, Israel. The photos and the stories are coming!

Jordan map

Malmö hangout sessions pt. 2 – Happy Birthday to Vladi and a big nostalgia party.

I got a Whatsapp message from a primary school friend: “Hey! Heard you’re in town! We’re organizing a surprise party for Vladi on Saturday – would be great if you could come. Hope to see you!”

Vladi is a friend I’ve known since first grade, we were buddies from the beginning and somehow almost always ended up in the same classroom while switching schools, all the way up until high school. We’ve managed to keep in touch throughout the years, 22 years to be exact, and I visited them just before leaving to Belize. Vladi has also been great at keeping the relations with many of the rest of our primary school friends, the friends from the neighbourhood, the people we grew up with, people from primary, middle and high school.

So, his girlfriend – and a girl I much liked to play with on the school yard, had organized a surprise party inviting all of Vladi’s friends to their apartment – and Vladi had no idea at all.

We shouted surprise, exchanged hugs and continued mingling in what for me was a nostalgia overload of faces and interesting life stories, people I knew as primary school kids were now talking about their parenthood and boyish faces had grown manly beards. In between the “this is sick!” and “wow, 7 years at least!?” greetings and hugs, there were laughs, some dancing, and a selfie stick that got to be the ultimate centre of attention all night. It was a great party, and I was very happy to be there.

Happy Birthday once more, Vladi! Thank you, Nilo! And the biggest of hugs to you all.

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Vladis Birthday!

Here’s some added goodies from the archive. Wish I was at home right now so I could share some more!

Nostalgia

Nostalgia

Nostalgia

UNICEF Belize: TIME OUT – Ending Violence Against Children in Belize

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Last month, UNICEF Belize launched the National C4D & Communication Strategy to End Violence Against Children in Belize, TIME OUT, along with the new PSA Videos that are being aired at National TV. The event was well attended by the media and UNICEF partners, and the discussion that followed gave added insights as to how the country will continue advocating, listening, and working together to End Violence Against Children in the Belize.

LAUNCHING EVENT

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

Time Out Launch

THE STRATEGY
The strategy stretches over at least 2 years – and it is important to point out that “TIME OUT” isn’t just a “communication campaign” – it’s an initiative using mainly Communication for Development approaches, aimed at inspiring behavioural change and affecting attitudes towards violence over the long term. C4D is based on listening to communities and creating dialogue on the issues that affect them in order to find out why certain damaging behaviours are in place and how we can work together to find alternatives.

One of the cornerstones of the strategy will be the establishment of a baseline on the situation of violence against children through a nationwide KAPB survey (Knowledge, Attitudes, Perceptions and Behaviours). UNICEF has travelled across the country and met with more than 130 children conducting focus group sessions including theatre and other activities, to find out if and how they are affected by violence in their communities.

Workshops

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The strategy is based on the cooperation with our partners, and also incorporates community level initiatives such as training of teachers on positive discipline, parental training and strengthening of the child justice system.

COMMUNICATION & PUBLIC INFORMATION COMPONENT
Along with all of these C4D initiatives – TIME OUT also has a classic communication and public information component including posters, videos and other visibility items such as wristbands.

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We are using the common concept of TIME OUT. However, the message today is not for children, it’s for adults – to take a TIME OUT and think – before using violent methods and teaching our children that these are acceptable/normal – and instead choose to use alternative methods to communicate and solve conflict.

“Basing our relationships on Understanding, Respect and Love.”

Through community consultations, we have learnt that one of the biggest challenges for parents is that while they don’t deem it necessary to use violence and negative discipline – they don’t know any other alternative. We are trying to inform about these alternatives, and strengthen parents in their confidence that a positive approach is possible.

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The content of the videos has been inspired by the inputs collected from children across the country and there five videos on the five types of violence will be rolled out on a monthly basis:

– Verbal Violence
– Physical Violence
– Gang Violence
– Neglect
– Sexual Abuse

The videos are embracing the cultural diversity of Belize, and are acted by normal people – “maybe even your next door neighbour.” One of the main points that we learnt from the children and want to communicate is that – VIOLENCE HAPPENS EVERYWHERE in BELIZE, across all social, geographical and cultural borders in the country. It’s hidden in plain sight and it’s thus everybody’s business to address violence.

The videos will be aired on most of the media channels in the country, and will be added to this article as they are released to the public.