Super Soft Heroes – stereotypes crushed with love.

supersoft heroes

Swedish artist and illustrator Linnea “Limpan” has created a colouring book with alternative situations to those we might expect of our classic and well known super heroes. Here’s what she writes about it on her Facebook page:

“Boys learn from their role-models to act tough and aggressive and that showing vulnerability or emotion is equivalent to being weak or ”being a girl” (which is considered an insult in today’s society). They are taught through those role models to ”man up” and that ”boys don’t cry”. Girls on the other hand learn early on that their greatest asset is to be beautiful. When my son of three years old stopped crying because none of his heroes do , I had to take action because I think this is (excuse me) bullshit.

I decided to draw ten soft superheroes and ten strong princesses, just to give the kids some alternatives. This coloring book is free, partly because i want no trouble with Marvel or DC comics but also so that I can reach out to as many kids as possible. As a cartoonist and a big comic book-fan myself I know the superheroes are emotional and complex characters, the problem is that in the kids editions they show only aggression and violence.
If you like my ideas and wish to donate money to my future projects you can send it via paypal to linneita@gmail.com

Here are the ten Super-soft heroes and in a few weeks I will give you ten Super-strong Princesses.
Thank you!”

This is an extraordinary initiative that I think parents should print and let their kids play with and even bring to their preschools as an alternative for all children.

Thank you Linnea for challenging stereotypes and giving parents alternatives to what the children of today are being forced to see – I adore Spiderman in the wheelchair and the grocery shopping Hulk!

Click below to download the PDF – it has been taken down from Linnea’s dropbox probably by people who don’t agree with progressive change and that Batman possibly could make a loving father, I urge you to help Linnea save and spread the pdf as widely as possible – it’s not only free, it’s important!

supersoft heroes2

CLICK TO DOWNLOAD THE PDF.

And let’s not forget to drop something into Linnea’s paypal account linneita@gmail.com so we can help her set up her own website.

Saying farewell to Sarah

Sarahs farewell

The problem with small cities and even smaller expat communities is that people tend to leave a lot. Often, when you meet the nicest of people, they already have a ticket out. (I’m not going to claim I haven’t been guilty of leaving, too. Sorry, all.)

Sarah is one of the people I wish I had gotten to hang out more with, although I’m sure we will meet somewhere else on the planet – unless she comes to visit us before I leave Belize which is very possible considering how cold London is now.. Hurry, hurry back, we have palm trees! :)

We attended a small farewell party as well as an official reception to say good bye to Sarah – she will be dearly missed not only by friends but also by the many people she worked with here in the country.

Good bye and good luck, Sarah!

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Sarahs farewell

Right, and then Lu-C and I took some elevator selfies..

Sarahs farewellSarahs farewell

Dinners, chocolate and messy kitchens

Luc spent almost two months here after we came back from New Year’s in Mexico. Apart from what I’ve already shared of our adventures, he ventured off into an entire world of culinary experiments. Including a chocolate strawberry-heart cake for Valentine’s, and an absolutely mind blowing chocolate mousse layered mint dark chocolate cake with mango sauce for my birthday.. plus a wide selection of other forms of chocolate.

There were breakfasts in bed with funny-face-pancakes, portobello mushroom fun, wine wine champagne, and the occasional movie-watching-snack overload.

BreakfastsSnacks

leftover breakfastsIndian food

Valentine's DinnerValentine's cake

Pancakes in bedPortobello Mushrooms

Chocolate layered mousseHello

Portobello mushroomsChampagne in bed

The result? Kitchen got messy and girl got her lady parts back. Haha!

Messy kitchensHello!

First Ever Belize Electronic Music Weekend – The official launch of an EDM era in Belize!

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

The first ever Belize Electronic Music Weekend was a great success in many ways, with international DJ’s, happy positive people, breath taking venues and – most importantly and not often heard of here – really good audiovisual gear – equaling CRISP and well-balanced sound, and nice visuals! The weekend was three full days of new friends, great tunes, dancing and hanging out. And I can’t wait for more to come.

Belize Ocean Club welcomed us with great service, rum cocktails and a beautiful suite that David, Natasha, Luc and myself would be staying in. We headed straight to the beach and had a quick evening swim before having a nap and heading to the Maya Beach Hotel Bistro where we had a VERY good dinner, and then to the lagoon side of the hotel to check out the party. The venue was perfect. With a dock going into the lagoon, all beautifully lit up, open air, and even a little hangout place with a fireplace. We spent the night chatting away, dancing and meeting new people, and the last couple of hours until sunrise in a ring around the fireplace. The best thing about the party was undeniably the mix of people. The mix of ages, the mix of backgrounds, the mix of interests. People from the most random corners of the world, many of whom were complete hippies in their minds yet proper responsible adults in practice. People with a past, a present and a future, stories to tell and an open and welcoming mindset. We felt so much at home in the conversations it felt like it was all just a very big and well organized house party with good friends and some new exciting people. Just the way you want your electronic music party to feel, right? Perfect!

On the second day we woke up late, hung out for a while by the pool, and headed in to Placencia town for the sunset party at Tipsy Tuna. Again, we danced, chatted, and hung out. The party ended a bit earlier which was nice as we were completely dead after the night before. Sunday was a different thing. We headed straight to the pool where the pool chill sessions kicked in at noon, with the same friends, warming sun, live electronic beats and colourful cocktails – we stayed for as long as we could before having to drive back to Belize. And the weekend was complete.

A big thanks to all our new friends, and especially to Anna and Marcus Perigo from Sisimito Records who arranged the weekend, invited us, and were being great hosts throughout. On our way out from Belize Ocean Club, I spotted Anna and thanked for the weekend. “Can’t wait for next year’s party!” I said as I gave her a hug. “Oh, no no no.. you won’t have to wait that long – after this success we’ll make sure to arrange events like this more often!” she responded. Which sounds absolutely perfect. This is the beginning of an Electronic Dance Music era in Belize, and I’m VERY happy to be here just now.

Just call us and we’ll be there!

Now – enjoy the photos – and don’t miss the video!

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

(The following three photos were taken by Leonardo Meléndez)

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

(Photo above by Leonardo Meléndez)

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Belizez Electronic Music Weekend 2015, Placencia

Quick weekend in Guatemala – driving to Flores and getting a fix of colourful Mayan magic.

Tikal, Guatemala

We took Suz for a ride to Guatemala a couple of weekends ago, just to get out of town and do something fun together. I’ve been to Flores and Tikal before, in 2013, and it was great to re-visit and reminisce about some of the moments. Tikal is beautiful and inspiring, and only a “short” drive away – so I definitely recommend anybody living in or visiting Belize to hop on a bus or take the car and make their way over the border. Now.. I must say, this all wasn’t as easy as we had expected – driving from Belize to Guatemala is quite different from the good ol’ “roadtrip to Mexico”  excursion. Particularly when you cross with your own vehicle. You will need to stand in line to declare your car and get a permit to enter the country – and to do so you need photocopies of your passport, your driver’s license, and the original of your vehicle registration (I usually only have the copy in the car). If you don’t have photocopies, eager taxi drivers gather all around to “help you out” and drive you to the nearest town to get them. We were lucky, as the person in border control was a big fan of our employer and decided that we should be treated as diplomats, my car doesn’t have those magic diplo plates so we couldn’t skip the necessary admin stuff – but he kindly offered to help us out with some details and take care of the copies, and we just paid the necessary fees and got out of there. Again, remember that you can only pay your vehicle permit in Guatemalan Quetzal, cash – as expected – but there are of course very kind currency exchange guys who will help you out and change your Belizean dollars at a conveniently outrageous rate. :)

This entire permit deal is an interesting thing once you have it –  it’s valid for three months. In other words, you can drive the car in and out of Guatemala as much as you wish within a period of 90 days. After that the permit automatically expires, and you’re then not allowed to enter Guatemala with this car at all for three months! A system I haven’t before heard of. Another option, which we went for, is to cancel the permit when exiting Guatemala. I’m now not allowed to bring Suz to Guatemala again before May. Which is fine since I won’t even be here in March, but I must admit I do feel a little bit  claustrophobic.

After the border, the road is ok, in the beginning – then there is some road work and the road is horrible – and then it’s back to your normal Belizean-style pothole fiesta again. Don’t trust Google Maps when it tells you that it takes 3 hours to drive to Flores. In fact, don’t trust Google maps to tell you how long it takes to drive anywhere in Belize. It manages to calculate Placencia and some of the southern districts right – but when going North or West, I very rarely manage to keep up with the estimation, (the surprise road bump suspension massacring frenzy manages to maintain my driving at slow and paranoid mode.) Adding on the border crossing dealings, the fact that we left Belize at rush hour, and that we drove after dark on the Guatemalan (my security focal point should not see this) roads, it took us almost 5 hours to get to Flores. Not a short drive, but a pleasant one with beautiful scenery – and very much worth it.

We stayed at the Ramada hotel, the only reasonably located option that wasn’t fully booked at the time. It was a bit on the steep side of Flores hotels, but the service was honey coated, the room was fresh and pleasant, and Suz got her own secure parking spot. Just what we needed. Oh, and surprise coffee at 3 am in the morning before our trip to Tikal.

Tikal, the old capital of the Mayan empire, is about one hour away from the picturesque and colourful little island of Flores. You will want to go with an organized tour in bus to get to enter early, avoid driving at 3 am, and see it at sunrise – sitting on top of the highest temple while the sun is coming up is one of my favourite parts of the experience. That, and the morning pyramid hang-out a couple of hours later, when you get to sit and look at the site as tourists come and go, and get little moments of silent stillness with the structures, thinking of how insane it is that they have been standing for almost 3000 years and that 90.000 people once used to live there.

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, GuatemalaTikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, GuatemalaTikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala

Tikal, Guatemala